What does this motherfucker not understand?? He told me it's in the past and if it's making me miserable to think about it "just let it go". apparently it's that simple......... He's not past trauma trained and on top of that he told me I was being selfish without knowing a tenth of the details. Also He says trying to talk about it to others is just bringing them down and said I need to think of other people... I do think of other people, to a fault, but no I'm selfish for having a messed up brain??