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BEING NICE TO PEOPLE.
I don't understand why there needs to be an ulterior motive just for being nice to someone. Opening a door, giving a hand to someone scrambling to hold things, etc. I'm not trying to dick you down, dude/dudette. Just being nice.
Also, saying please/thank you, etc., isn't flirting. It's manners.
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The same people who think loving your spouse is being a simp. No joking, there are people who believe this....
I've straight up been socially ostracized in certain circles after the guys found out that I enjoy spending time with my wife.
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That's just weird and sad. Sorry that happened to you. I mostly don't want to hang out with anyone but M'Lady. Sure, there's serious stuff to discuss every once in a while, but we have a lot of fun and enjoy each other's company.
My first reaction was to downvote this. Not for what you said, but as a proxy. As a way of downvoting calling someone a simp for loving their spouse.
Omg like if i take off someones clothes people look at me funny like im doing something wrongππ
I have deep compassion for those people; I do not approve of what they think, but I do wish them kindness and healing from whatever got them to that place.
I find such people truly difficult... just see people out in the world saying the most casually hateful things. Went to a comedy show two weeks ago, comedian did a little audience interaction, involved something about popular holidays in March, asks a question... this absolute smarmy shitstain, fully aware he's trying to bate someone, made a comment strongly implying that the only holiday in black history month is the first day of March... holy cow, the comedian handled it with the most nothing of a derisive laugh, the audience (at least half of which wasn't white) bristled, home slice had the temerity to sit ramrod straight for another half hour, his obviously-insane girlfriend announced too loudly she was going to the bathroom, he just sat very casually until he suddenly bolted... fun part was I was waiting already, I didn't beat him up but it was apparent he realized he'd fucked up saying something like that. I am a big white dude, and I grew up in East Nowhwere, he heard a friend in my country affectation and spun to the alley to see some actual friends looking like they wanted to celebrate, whatever month it was.
I hope his girlfriend got turned on by people standing up for each other, recanted, and offered our heroes individual, then group rewards. She wasn't my type, but I'd have done the lord's work to make sure McRacist was as broken as possible.
I will tell any story so as to not do the important thing I should be doing WTF