My top 3 Acts of service, gift giving, physical touch, ayaw ko magdemand ng time kasi busy kami both sa work at magkaiba sched haha tapos pag free day lagi akong tulog 😩😂
Words of affirmation. It makes me happy to hear him say every time he loves me, and that I look pretty. I love it especially when he tells me that I'm doing a good job or when he's acknowledging my efforts. It feels like a verbal hug and it means so much to me. ^^
Act of service and word of affirmation like kahit pagod ako galing work putcha puntahan parin kita sa inyo para makita lang kita and sabihin na ang ganda mo then sabay tayo dinner
I would probably get negative side comment about this but ano giving gifts like you saw something and it reminds you of me so you bought it? I'm filing a marriage contract right away
Quality time! I think my need for "parallel play" to be able to focus reflects this a lot. On my end, even if the other party is silent in the hangout, their presence is comforting and enjoyable enough.
Receiving: Words of Affirmation 🥹🥹🥹
Assurance din top tier for me, sarap din masabihan kang maganda minsan kahit alam mong sa sarili mo na ang haggard mo hahaha. And somehow nava-validate yung feelings ko.
Giving (Top 3): Quality Time, Physical Touch, Acts of Service. Kahit malayo pa byahe, dadayuhin kita maramdaman ko lang touch mo, at makasama ka.
physical touch - syempre manyakis ako sa partner ko eh. Kahit saan lugar basta walang nakatingin hahawakan ko ng pasimple yung boobs at butt nya. Tapus unli hugs and kisses sa cheeks, lips and leeg. Maginoo na medyo bastos yung kuya nyu.
Act of service and quality time. Pero di na ko naniniwala dyan. Kahit pa lahat ng love languange iparamdam mo sa kanya, kung lolokohin ka nya, balewala rin.
Words of Affirmation. Di ko na experience yun when growing up. I want to end that upbringing by becoming someone who practices it. I also want to achieve all forms of love language as well kasi dapat competent when it comes to relationships.
Physical touch. Tumitiklop talaga ako sa mga hugs, beso, holding hands lalo na pag hinihimas yung hair or mina-massage yung ulo ko. Siguro dahil na rin outside ang strong ng personality ko, at the end of the day, mas nangingibabaw yung need ko ng physical interaction. Gusto ko ako naman yung bine-baby at times. Huhu. Kaya di talaga umuubra LDR sa 'kin, e. 😭🤧
Akala ko date physical touch, pero eventually I realized words of affirmation pala. It makes me feel better pag naririnig kong pinupuri ako. It soothes me.
acts of service, maybe. kasi bilang medyo tamad ako on default, for me to do something for people must mean I care for them. That, or people pleaser lang ako. Well sa family ko at least, that's really me going the extra mile. Kasi sa daming beses na nasaktan nila ako so for me to let that all the s... go, I really did and is STILL doing all I can. Also I appreciate when people do stuff for me AND TEACH ME while doing it (if it's a chore or something IDK how to do).
Also, words of affirmation. Bilang eabab na lumaki sa kinda verbally abusive mother at emotionally not-so-present father both with anger issues.. tho I also don't believe words that easily because I know my way through words bilang people pleaser nga ( I usually think people are just being nice bec I'm nice to them). APAKA IRONIC HAHAHAH
if you show acts of service (more like allergies of service), you just proved that I am not capable of everything. Nauutusan na ko lagi sa bahay, wag ka nang dumagdag please. Do it on your own
I always say to my 2 young adult sons that I love them, I ask for a kiss & hugs. ung kse ang hindi ko naranasan sa parents ko, though I know they love me…
I grew up in a family where Hindi ka sasabihan ng I love you, I care about you, etc ng parents. Yung Hindi vocal na parents. Grabe yung paninibago ko nung bigla akong sinabihan ng bf ko noon na nag aalala sya sakin, proud sya Kase mag cocollege nako, etc. Siguro for me words and affirmations din tsaka Yung gift, etc.. nakakapaninago kapag naka meet ka ng Isang tanong ipaparamdam sayo Yung mga bagay na Hindi mo naranasan sa pamilya mo? Idk
Your love language is how you want to receive love. 😊 hindi mo naman pwede ipilit na mahalin mo yung isang tao thru gift giving tapos ang love naman for him/her is words of affirmation. Hindi mo mapipilit kausapin nang bisaya ang kapampangan. You talk to them thru language they understand. Kaya magkaiba talaga yung pano ka magmahal sa pano mo gusto kang mahalin
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