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For Men, Is it true that there will always be a woman that you've met who is unforgettable or stands out from other women?
its the personality, mindset. bawat babae may katangian na wala sa iba .
I believe some people refer to them as their totga.
Problem is, kung di ka marunong makuntento wala rin.
Yes, she was the most extraordinary woman I've ever met until now naiisip ko padin sya kahit it's been years already although never naging kami , kahit may iba na akong kausap or ka date I still tend to look for similarities yes I know MALI and I'm doing my best to forget and I known every woman is unique but somehow she became my standard and I hate myself for that, I hate myself kasi hindi ko padin makalimutan tong babaeng ito.
Yes, meron, although, she chose someone according sa payo sa kanya, meron kasi syang anak sa lalake na walang kwenta, di sila kasal, tapos sabi sa kanya nang mga kaclose nya na tiniisin n lang ang lalake para sa anak. Dapat aalis na sya dun eh pero dahil yan payo sa kanya, sinunod nya, she doesnt respond to me pag about samin, pero she asks help from me from time to time, na d ko naman matiis.
Yes, to this day no one beats my HS best friend /sweet heart I be like those old dudes nowadays staring at the abyss wondering how managed to screw things up so bad that I lost her. That was 6 years ago... at my early 20s and I still can't get over her my one true love.
as a girl, THESE COMMENTS ARE MAKING ME GO NUTS HUHU SANA DI GANITO MINDSET NG BF KO (no offense sa guys na nag comment, i’m just mad scared)
i know, girl :(( sadly, there will always be "that girl" talaga siguro HAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
yes haha and it's been 2 years since nag usap kami. I'll never forget her even tho ghinost nya ko haha.
hits different talaga pag sya nakakausap ko non eh kahit na sa chat lang pero alam mo talaga yung feeling lols, i can't explain mb. Since di na kami nag usap never na ulit ako nagkagusto sa iba like hinahanap hanap ko yung characteristics nya, wala eh parang sya na yung naging standard ko. idk haha
until now i'm still thinking abt her kahit sa mga small things, sobrang naattach kasi ako pero i didn't know na one day bigla na lang hihinto. pero i'm still trying to move on and for better naman to. 2 years na dude pero it feels like yesterday lang.
nasanay na lang din ako ng wala sya so i can say that i moved on but still fjejjdhshshshshsh lmfao idk
F here. Seeing all these comments nakakaoverthink at the same time medyo kinilig ako hahaha! Madalas yung mga tao na di natin makalimutan yung mga hindi talaga natin nakatuluyan and I think, other than the personality, nandoon kasi “what ifs” (or rin kasama regrets) kaya unforgettable?
Definitely! I still remember 13 years ago when we first met, the exact table we sat, her exact look when she arrived. I remember the street where I usually see her, the first restaurant we ate together, the exact bench she sat when I picked her up so we can go eat, the first time we kissed, everything. Every bit of detail hindi ko nalilimutan. I go to that place where we first held hand while walking and I’ll just walk there thinking about why we weren’t given the chance. Saklap pa is we both tried to be together, we knew the love was genuine, it was the realest thing I’ve felt but fate didn’t allow it. Not a day since 13 years ago that I haven’t thought of her. We both tried to be together a couple of years ago but ended up hurting ourselves, hurting the people around us. We don’t see or talk to each other anymore but let this comment be a letter to her. I still think of you and will probably think of you until God knows when. I gave you a part of me, and you gave me a piece of you too. Know that we’ll always be part of each other and when we meet again in the next life, I’ll look for you, waste no time, and tell you that I belong with you. I love you, A.A. ❤️
omg u didn't have to be so sweet 😭 wholesome naman nitooo, lucky her :))
Yes. I was schoolmates with this woman back in 2019. Our first messages were gifs. I think I replied to her story (couldn't remember what it was) and for 3 days, our conversations were through gifs only. I had a huge crush on her back then, but she had a boyfriend so I kept my distance. Our chats were funny. Then it turned into friendship when we started using actual sentences in our conversations. We shared sentiments, opened up topics, shared conversations about our crushes and failed romantic interests, and the like. This went on until 2020 when I had a girlfriend. That ended. Fast forward to 2022, we chatted again, kumustahan, ganun. I started talking to her about my work crush. But that didn't last long. I supported her crochet business by commissioning her. We hanged out a few times but only because she had to give me the products I commissioned. Of course, I gave her gifts like chocolates and digital portraits of her (I'm an artist) whenever we meet up. I remember her requesting to accompany her at a mall. She has a date with this girl so I had to wait at the water garden. I had a huge crush on her back then but I never felt jealous. After their date, I accompanied her to the terminal, we went home together, and all that. After that, we tried different stuff like sending reels on IG (memes, funny cat vids, things that interests us), playing ML (she was great), and even sending tiktok vids on tiktok DMs. Now fast forward to 2023-2024, we don't talk much nowadays. She's happy with her girlfriend, I'm happy with my girlfriend.
I guess what makes her memorable is she gave me life advices whenever I feel like I'm stuck at life. She influenced me with her songs that I still play to this day. In fact, some of my favorite songs came from her playlist. Whenever some specific songs play, I remember her. She's caring, fun to talk to, she has this very unique way of texting that I find really cute.
I am happy now with my girlfriend, though. I don't imagine things like "what if I told her my feelings back then" because if I ever got that chance, I'd still choose my girlfriend. (Another story for another time and thread)
I never told her how I felt back then. Never going to tell it now nor in the future. I just hope she doesn't use reddit.
Definitely. It's not the looks. Beauty is fleeting but a caring heart and being supportive of me is a gem and will make her stand out definitely. Another one is being classy like having a great sense of style and exudes a kind of positive energy that she's respectable. A good sense of humor who can make me laugh and feel like a kid, damn that's attractive to me as well.
The girl who takes my first time doing sop. Weird but felt good. Hahahahah
Yes, may ex ako na di ko alam bakit sobrang tumatak saken. Hanggang ngayon na more than 5 years na.
Yes although shes not my gf anymore .....since she we were eachother's first on almost everything i think about her from time to time
Someone said it's their mom🥹
I met a girl online and she was the cutest, funniest and at the same time most pervert girl i ever met. Yun lang masyadong malayo yung hometown niya sakin and di pa kaya ng budget ko ang puntahan siya that time. We never met in person pero ang laki ng impact niya sakin, siya na yung naging standards ko now. And kung san ka man ngayon sana natupad mo mga pangarap mo. Hi doc☺️
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Yes, I met her years ago. We were 7th grade when we first met. She was 2 years older than me I bullied the shit out of her and got almost expelled. Eventually me and her became friends. As time passed, me and her started to see each other every Saturday. Our bonds are like brothers and sisters but there's a twist in it sa huli. I wasn't even aware she was a lesbian at first but when she opened da it up to me it didn't stop me from being there for her and I don't give a shit about it cuz she's a human being. She was always there for me also I was scared to be vulnerable to her, she might think I'm a weakling ako pero hindi naman pala mas maiinis sia sa akin if di ako vulnerable sa kanya. As time passed unti unti sia nagiging babae dhil sa akin, she started to dress like a feminine woman from masculine and stuff. She started to gain weight from unhealthy weight and she's happy. I was suprised and confused bat ganto na sia manamit sa mind ko. "Hey Bun, do you like the way I dress?" she asked me. Well, I'm fcking blushing and didn't hesitate, I told her na "Tu eres hermosa y amojer" . She smiled and looked at me in the eye na I don't understand it's like sparking diamond na ewan ramdam ko talaga ung kutob ko. Man, to be honest, every time I look at her in the eyes it's like I saw an Angel sent from heaven. Ayun nga tuwing tumtiingin ako sa kanya pumapasok itong kanta na to "I WANNA BE YOURS - ARCTIC MONKEYS". 12th grade, ito ung huling ewan interaction and di na kami nagkikita. She said farewell to me "Goodbye Bun, you were everything. Thank u for always being there for me and being a father figure pero I see you more than that. Everything must come to an end. I know you protect me from my abusive nympho mom and my evil toxic froms but I can't really take it anymore I've been hiding my feelings for u for so long that I became straight cuz of you. You made me feel like a woman.I love u." And she blocked me sa lahat ng socials nia. I lost her when I was 18 she was 20 at that time
It's been 3 years na An, I still think about you. Do you think I have forgotten about you? Ikaw first love ko talaga. Bihira mga babaeng tulad mo talaga. You we're everything to me. I'm sorry if I failed you talaga.
PACENSIA NA GUSTO KO LNG ILABAS LAHAT AND ALSO SORRY KUNG MAGULO 😭😭😭
Grabeng love story yan haha pede na gawan ng movie you're living in a fairytale that time dude hope you feel better broski
Yes. Pero more on admiration lang yan suntok sa buwan kadalasan eh 😂😂😂 or hindi pa ako ready financially nung time na na meet ko sya or hindi pa ako full healed. I won't love someone or I wouldn't dive into a relationship kapag hindi pa ako financially ready. Sayang? Oo pero ang mindset ko kasi nyan, kung sya na yung tamang tao talaga mamemeet ko sya sa oras na ako ready na(financially, emotionally and spiritually)
love ur mindset! this is how you do it y'all 🙌!!
Yes, I met this woman during pandemic and since malapit lang kami from each other we go out almost everyday because online class din however things ended din. I always long for her even tho we’re on our own lives na the thing about her is that aside from being beautiful she’s caring, smart and above all independent. She can take things on her own and that’s what I love about her. She’s also has this very soft personality when it comes to her loved ones. Despite breaking up with her I’ll consider her my TOTGA. I might find another one again but she’ll have a spot in my heart although not as big as before but she’s still here with me. I’ll always be happy for whatever she becomes in the future. btw miss you AU.
Mindset..that's what attractivefor me
Definitely yes and it isn't limited to one. I have been with 4 women I could never forget and if any of them called me and needed something I would go help them. All of those relationships ended amicably and was like a timing thing that we parted ways neither of us were mad at each other it was just impossible for it to continue for some reason or another I often think what would have happend had we got married in each case I loved them all. In my experience love for a person never goes away if you truly love someone you always will period
she's objectively a bad person but i still couldn't help myself
Of course, I miss you, PC ! It's been 3 yrs na.
Personal collection? Joke lang po kapatid
Paolo Contis.
I'm a guy 😂
Nah
Yep. She turned out to be a piece of sht, but I will never forget her.
Reading all these comments made me realized that there is a possibility of not being able to forget him even after so many years! That idea alone scares me. I can say I moved on but I still long for those feelings while with him. By the way that was 5 years ago and until now I remained being single.
The recent heartbreak. The one that made me want to raise a family. Same humor, same hobbies, same beliefs. Responsible, loves her work.
Just didn't worked out in the end.
Yup, currently trying to move on from her. She’s definitely my totga.
💯 Almost a decade na nung huli kaming nagusap(highschool), she's the sweetest girl I have met in my life, minsan napapaginipan ko siya hanggang ngayon, pakiramdam ko totoo talagang nangyari yung panaginip na magkasama kami tapos mapapaluha nalang ako pag gising ko.
Aww😩🥹
I still dream of her but we don't have the same phasing in life. 💔 She looks like a Portuguese-Filipina woman na hindi make-up reliant and in harmony talaga ang proportion ng kanyang face.
Mukang maganda siya ah.
Of course meron yan. Kahit naman sa girls, merong lalaki na mag-stand out. Ang hopeless romantic naman ng question.
Kahit naman sa girls, merong lalaki na mag-stand out.
True, kakaiba lang minsan ng mga gender specific na questions unless kung scientific related haha
Meron! The one who got away…
Most of these comments are making me sappy 🥹
That "could have been" from 13 years ago but alas, fuck school policies.
Yes.
No. You are all the same
Yes, in fact I'm still dreaming about her sometimes. We met in my early year of high school. Sya Yung best friend KO na girl HAHAHAHAHA Kasi sya Lang Naman lagi KO nakakausap and in my eyes she's really the most beautiful person in our room and Yung nangyari is na fall ako. Then fast forward 4 years moving up namin to senior highschool, I confessed to her Kasi lilipat na den sya Ng ibang school while ako mag stay Ng same school since nag ooffer Naman sila Ng senior high. As usual, rejected bu the thing is, wala pa rin ako lakas Ng loob basahin lahat ng message nya after Ng confession ko. Ginawa ko Lang is binasa ko Yung Pinaka answer and scroll down right away dahil you know HAHAHAHAHAHA mahina loob ko HAHAHAHAHA. Ngayon, she's already in college and I stop mag aral because of financial reasons. What happened next is that some time a year ago I dreamed of her. Contents of that dream is the one I really hope to do with her. Travel, date, wedding etc anything a couple will do. Really wish I was real but you see it was just a dream. I told the same story to my friends and their advice to me is that I try to pursue her again. Pinagisipan ko talaga as in Kung i-pursue ko na sya or not until one day eh nag decide ako mag stop thinking about her for my peace of mind. The reason is I scrolled and saw some of her pics on Facebook and Instagram and she's smiling a lot and happy at her current life and I really don't want to destroy that beautiful smile of hers because of my selfishness. Though I hope na in another lifetime, another world or in my reincarnation if that would be possible eh Sana magkatotoo Yung dream ko. But right now, I don't really want to bother her anymore and I'll be back in college this academic year after some years Ng pagkahinto.
Sorry for the Grammar mistakes
i love this !! you showed ur love to her by letting her be happy on her own <3 goodluck with your future endeavors!
Thanks a lot OP🫶🫶
I genuinely believe that it's how you met them.
yes.
if that woman had some trait that I consider valuable and rare
No
Yep!
Para Sakin yung partner ko. Unconditional yung binigay niya sakin. So, no one can ever replace her.
Yes, idk why pero sometimes my babae nalang ako makikita in public that would stand out to me and awkwardly stare napalihim within that short few seconds of walking pass each other.
Among my lady friends, there's perhaps 2 or 3 that stand out. For me, it's because I admire their strength. Hindi sila mahiyain, hindi sila mahina sa loob. Sakto lang yung ambitiousness nila, yung hindi naman mayabang ang pagdating. They're unique in that they go after what they want, and it's clear they're driven by passion rather than money.
sya parin ang hinahanap hanap ko
I don't take the words "always" and "never" seriously. As for the question, it's not true. It may hold true for a long time, maybe for a lifetime for other men, but in reality, that feeling will only last for as long as it takes before you find a better woman.
What sucks though, is I'm somewhat in this kind of state, and it's robbing me (and potential partners) so much opportunities.
I had a really close friend in high school before. She was the only person in the world I could open up to and have deep personal conversations with. She had depression, and she was open to talking about things like suicide and such. We hugged a lot and even kissed sometimes (not on the lips though) but our relationship was platonic. I was interested in another girl at the time.
We went to different schools later on and we rarely talked since. In the rare occasion in which we did, it was only small talk. I know she's in a relationship right now and it seems like she's doing well in college.
Still, I think about her every now and then. She's probably doing much better now than she was back then, and I wish her all the best.
Yung girlfriend ko ngayon. Sobrang iba niya sa mga exs ko and mga kaibigan kong babae. Ang talino niya kasi and ayun super pretty and hot pa. Tapos wala siyang idea na ganun siya and pag sinasabi ko di siya naniniwala.
I can confirm.
There's this girl I met 10 years ago when I was still in college. NGSB ako at sobrang choosy but she was the only girl na gusto kong ipakilala sa parents, family, and friends ko, the one I want to spend my future with.
She was just perfect in almost every single way, basically my ideal girl. We became very good friends, sobrang magkavibes kami, same province, same college, same banat/hugot lines, same kaming musicians, etc. Para bang female version ko ganun. Para kaming mga baliw na may sariling mundo. We accept & understand each other on another level. I can be myself when I'm with her.
Sounds too good to be true? Probably. I found out na taken na pala sya nung naglakas loob akong tanungin sya. Too late, nafall na ako e. I tried so hard to move on kaso ang lakas lang talaga ng tama ko sa kanya.
We remained friends though and I tried to distance myself kahit masakit but it's for the best. At least I know she's happy and I give her my full support. Kahit anong paglayo ko, hinahanap-hanap ko pa rin sya.
2 years later, I found out that she dropped out of college because she got pregnant by her bf. Idk why may kirot pa rin sa akin pero happy for her pa rin. I thought makakamove-on na talaga ako finally but I was wrong. Deep inside I still care for her.
Another 2 years later, nagkasalubungan kami sa campus after a long time then we hugged each other for the first and last time. It was very brief but I was very happy na intact pa rin friendship namin after everything. Mukha akong tangang nakangiti abot tenga even hours after nun haha.
Many years later she got married na with her bf and had another kid. I was very happy for her and I knew it was coming na but this time wala nang kirot. Basta happy sya, happy na rin ako.
I can truly say na nakamove-on na ako sa kanya but it took me probably 6-7 years. She made me finally believe in love. Until now there's just nothing that compares to her and I don't think there's someone I'll ever love again like that.
I know it's unfair to compare since every woman is different but I hope someday, I'll learn to love again. In another life, I might choose her again and who knows baka ako na rin pala this time ang piliin nya.
☹️☹️☹️🥺🥺🥺🥺
Brooo naalala ko sa kwento mo yung commercial ng Jollibee about her childhood best friend totoo pala na nangyayari sya in different scenarios but in the same situation pero tama ka always choose yourself muna talaga kasi that's the best you can do right now trust me bro makakahanap ka rin ng babaeng magpapatibok ulit sa puso mo minsan unexpected pa sya nangyayari hope you are doing good
y'all this is the top comment 😞 HAHSHAHAHAHA feels very bittersweet at the end, hopefully you'll find the woman who'll make you learn to love again !!
Aww thanks. Bittersweet is indeed the perfect word for what I felt all throughout. Glad that I met her, made me very happy, and spent memories with her that I'll treasure forever but at the same time sad because I know hanggang dun lang kami and I can't be with her.
I guess fate can sometimes be cruel and we can't have everything in life. People we meet can either be a blessing or a reason. In my case, she's both. Wow ang drama HAHAHA.
Minsan may times na napapaisip ako na if hindi siya, wag nalang but the hopeless romantic part in me still believes na makakatagpo pa rin ako ng para sa akin the same way she taught me to believe in love. For now, I'm just taking my time to focus & love myself more 😁.
Aww. 🤧
Tanung ko kaya to sa husband ko.
Ang isasagot niya sa yo ay ... oo, pinakasalan ko siya.
paupdate po kami haha
HAHAHAHAHAHAH mukhang may kahahantungan 'yan after.
Hmm. Interesting question. I guess for me oo? I still occasionally remember this girl I saw in a red dress in some bar in Makati 20 years ago.
This is completely meaningless though. I don't even remember what she looks like honestly. I just remember me thinking she was the most beautiful girl I had seen.
Minsan na naming nakasalubong si Donita Rose ng asawa ko. Hanggang ngayon hindi pa rin namin malimutan pareho.
Yes, but the feeling to be with them is long gone.
+1
Not really, or kung meron man, baka di ko pa sya nakikilala hahaha
oo naman normally kung cno crush mo.
Yes. First gf ko. Still do 'til this day.
In psychoanalytic theory.
Your first standard in romantic relationship is your parents. And no its not incestuous in nature. Kaya may mommy and daddy issues na nauso. Electra and Oedipal complex.
Mapapalitan lang ung standard na iyon kung may mas makilala ka na much better.
Once I had this dream about a nonexistent girl, she had the very same personality as my mother but a different face. I remember thinking: “This, this is what I’m looking for”.
Yes. Speaking from my experience, I met women who are really the standard. Yung bestfriend ko is a standard sa'kin dahil nga sa she knows her worth and does not tolerate bullshit. Nakilala ko rin yung ex ko na almost perfect but we broke up dahil she's manipulator (that's the downside) and my recent crush who's very charismatic, funny, and intelligent kaso I gave up on her dahil nga she became close to my ex din kaya ayon.
Multiple women, each so unique from the other, that I couldn't forget kahit ngayon na more that 20+ years na din since huli ko silang naka-interact, some I have confessed to, some I kept hidden and unrequited till today
TOTGA..
Its true even just for meeting people. Not just the opposite sex. There's always an unforgettable human.
Yes na yes
Yes. You'd be surprised how even the smallest of interactions can be stuck in your memory for years.
Isang yakap lang pero you yearn for it.
Isang date lang pero hindi mapantayan.
Minsan isang sulyap lang and wala super ganda can't forget it HAHAHA (rare 'to though)
Yes. Not woman, but women. I have been fortunate to have met women of substance. One of them is my ex-gf (wife) haha.
Yep. Ideal vs realistic
Yes
100% and it's not because of negative emotions actually. Every woman I dated nakalimutan ko ung mga nanakit sa akin at kung paano ako sinaktan. Pero ung talagang nagpasaya sa akin hanggang ngayon after 8 years, I still have the pieces of memories that we've spent kahit di na kami.
Yes. There’s your partner, your crush, and your soulmate. Hopefully they’re one and the same, but most of the time they’re not.
Yes
Yes :(
Yup
And she actually came to mind after reading this. Pero hindi na romantic yung feeling. Thankful na lang ako na naging friends ulit kami after what happened.
Yes. Kalhating dekada na hndi parin makamove-on sa first love na totga kaya ngaun I choose to stay single 😶 She was so unique na she really did not care for makeup or materialistic things (more of sentimental value than luxury) (also not to say that this is a negative towards women who are materialistic, gusto ko lng tlaga ung kanyang mindset sa ganun), high emotional intelligence, has the best internet and tumblr humor I've met, not to mention na physically she was the most attractive person I've met (pawang anime girl ang itsura lalo na't pag bagong gising), and also demisexual kaya the only ones she ever dated were those closest to her, shy and introverted rin sya, no socmed aside from hidden ones and messenger, also cared truly for me in the sense that she knows the male struggle kaya ung dynamic rin nmin sa relationship hndi pang traditional, we understood each other, no one really compares 😭 also everyone around her likes her vibe and aura and cares for her kasi sya ang mahinhin sa friend group (pero pag sa mga bff at sa akin malutong ang pagmumura HAHAHA) and not to mention her voice is also very soft and low kaya mahirap pakinggan, everyone leans in para marinig sya BDJDBSBS
Then pandemic happened. I was still under my mom's umbrella and ayaw nyang pumayag na lumabas ako. We did not expect to have non-physical interactions for a long time so hndi nmin napaghandaan. gg lol🙂
sorry sa long essay, nagkwento lng HAHAHA
That was SHS love so maybe wla nmng epekto yan sakin sa pagtanda, pero rn I'm happier single than being with someone else kasi she set the bar so high for me
comments here are making me feel hopeless romantic 😻 i like seeing men being "loverboys" here (good thing I'm single coz i can't bear the thought of my man speaking like this about 'that woman')
good luck 0_0
same lol
Yes, but that woman for me is the one that got away, so her being "the best thing that never happened to me" could just very well be a fantasy.
Yes. There will always be one.
YES, i so agree with this statement....
For sure. They vary too tho. They can become someone you actually met and talked to; an acquaintance perhaps; or someone you just saw and don’t even know their name… it happens.
The last one that stuck out to me was this random girl me and my friend cross paths with somewhere in Manila. I’m usually reserved and conservative with how I act in public and how I talk(or not talk) to random people. Suplado ako by default. But this girl, man… she made me say “ey mami” and my friend was like “dayum”. Baduy kung baduy pero wala eh. 🤷 Hindi ko naman sinigaw. I “think” I said it softly… maybe. Honestly dunno if she heard. My bad if she did. 🙏
Conservative estimate is that it happened about half a decade ago and yet that memory, that girl, still stands out. Didn’t catch any feelings tho—just whiplash. 😂
Another instance naman, for example lang din, would be a girl na naging classmate ko post grad. We was hot. Dunno how else to put it. Partida medyo titibotibo manamit. Pero the main thing is we vibe. So I guess this is a matter of ugali. Some people say she liked me—dunno about that. Unfortunately pareho kaming may jowa nung time na yun. Kaya hanggang scholastic bonding lang kami. Neither one of use tried to take the friendship outside of school.
IT HAPPENED ABOUT HALF A DECADE AGO???? men are really something else 😭😭
Shocked din ako na it still crosses my mind paminsanminsan. Hahaha. It do be like that. Pero I don’t dwell on it naman masyado. Tamang kaway lang whenever it crosses my mind. Maybe may onti “ey mami” na rin. Hahaha.
Sabi nang Chemistry teacher namin noon na ang galing mag kwento about sa buhay n'ya — "Ang mga lalaki, may isa talagang babae sa buhay nila na hindi nila makakalimutan."
Yes.
First love? Or TOTGA?
Parang sa lalake, first love sa babae usually TOTGA. Maybe.
At the end of the day what they have in common is an ideal. It is essentially fantasy, precisely because they were allowed to fill in the blanks. That is just something we learn to mature from with real relationships and experiences.
Definitely
She's frozen in the past, as time goes on the brain only remembers the good memories, and that's why she seems ideal.
Sa laki ng dede, oo. Pero yung sa personality, etc. wala naman.
Yep. Kaibigan ko siya...hindi. Ate ko siya. She was always there in my darkest hours. She's a better sibling than the lazy dipshit scumbag I'm stuck with.
She's going through her own dark hours, So I'll promise that I'll always be there for her. Just as she had for me.
Uhm, before siguro oo. But when maturity strikes, satisfaction na ang sagot dyan. Admit it or not, lagi naman tayong merong makikitang MAS at HIGIT sa sarili natin or sa partner. So as a respect and love for the partner. Wapakels na sa iba. 🫰🏻
depende cgro kung gano mo sya kadalas makita at makausap over sa ibang babae. parang ung saitang "hindi kna amhal" its just di kna lng kase maramdaman ganon
Oo, siya ang babaeng lagi ko nakakausap, siya yung nagbibigay kasiyahan sakin, siya rin dahilan bakit ako malungkot hanggang ngayon, hindi ako maka move-on.
Awww.. kaya natin to
Not a man. Here's my two cents: Let's call him Jason. May naging crush Siya Nung elementary na ang pangalan is Althea. Hetong si Althea, nag transfer ng school Nung grade 3. Si Jason naman made a way to contact her Nung high school. Niligawan ni Jason pero tumanggi si Girl. They reunited in College sa UPD. Tinanggihan ulit ni girl.
Minsan gusto Kong naniwala na may mga lalake talaga na Isang babae lang Sila ma-aatract.
Yes. (First love theory is true, to some extent).
Yes. I have been looking for her ever since. Even in other people
Not a man, but could be. May mga girlies na ang ganda talaga aura na 'di mo ma-explain. Kahit tahimik, people are drawn to her.
Oo,yung kayang sumabay sa Genjutsu at hand signs ko🙏
Di ako lalaki pero I would say meron yan
Nope. Depende na sa tao yan. If im going to start a new relationship dapat moved on na ko sa past rel ko whether good memories or bad memories. Unfair lang kasi sa bago ko parang may comparison yun pag ganun sa ex ko, and ayoko din gawin sakin ng current or future girlfriend ko.
The "first love theory", totoo yun, then yung first comfortable and passionate sex din, yung bang walang hiya-hiya na.
Same goes with women
Totga? Yap. Check mo ung MV ni Katy Perry
Every woman I dated is unique. One was extremely impulsive, the next extremely jealous, another was a liar and a cheater, followed by the sexiest than all before her, and most recent and the hardest to predict with her many mixed signals. In some way, they all stood out and left real strong impressions.
who's better among them all then?
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better at loving you, ig?
I mean namimiss ko kausapin si selosa. Sakanya ko unang naramdaman yung feelings na gusto ko rin siya. She was slightly taller than me, tas curvy pa. Pero naglalaslas pag nagseselos siya and we broke up kasi inuuna ko PS4 ko noon. She has my name carved on her table, ewan ko kung makakalimutan niya ako.
Tas best sex talaga kay sexiest HAHAHAHA. Nakakatatlong sunod sunod kasi nilalabasan ako agad. Una niyayabangan ko matagal ako labasan. Napaghiwalay ko sila ng ex niya noon, ewan ko baka bumalik na siya doon. Pero I think she doesn’t like her men expressive, I was kinda feminine like that.
Nakakabaliw si mixed signals, napapahabol niya ako until napagod ako. Pero para saken siya rin yung pinaka type ko sa itsura. Tall, slim, and fair. Kung nacommunicate niya siguro better yung gusto niya, baka ngayon nagddate parin kami.
Yung sinungaling pinaka magaling gumawa ng kwento, walang tatalo sakanya doon. Pero sakanilang lahat, siya din least pretty. Siya rin shortest and least fair. Pero at least nakahanap siya ng magmamahal sakanya better than I could’ve. I couldn’t give her my trust kasi she once lied abt going out w a friend. Until she admitted na it was a date w one of her suitors. I should’ve broke up with her then.
Sa mga ibang nakalandian ko naman, meron pabalik-balik sakin kahit may bf siya, tinutulak ko na siya palayo by calling her a cheater. Andami niyang excuse na di niya kayang makipag-break sa bf niya tas patuloy parin siyang lumalandi sakin.
Tas meron pa this weird girl na she acts trying to be indifferent pero ang obvious na nagcoconflict lagi emotions niya and I think di niya lang kaya iexpress gaano gusto niya. I think she wanted me to love and chase her, pero I can’t do that to someone I really don’t like that much.
And I had this online kalandian na pinay na nasa US. SHE LOOKED EXACTLY LIKE MY EX NA SELOSA. Even google photos agree, akala ni google one person yung dalawa. Pero yung ex ko got a scar on her nose kasi her razor slipped while shaving her eyebrows. Tas this girl in US have a diastema in her two front teeth.
Pero answering your question: I feel like selosa loved me the most. I told other girls abt my preference for girls na selosa, some actually tried being jealous kahit wala silang feelings hahahaha. I tried hitting her up a few times in the past, she’s trying to forget me na and doesn’t wanna talk to me. Pero may mga point din na she reminisces. I stopped entering her life, she should be happier. And tbh, i never move on, it’s like I have hyperthymesia na every memory I have of these girls are vivid kahit exact dates I could recall if I wanted to. I still have some feelings with each one of them, pero I don’t discuss that with anyone who personally knows me, in fact, I deny them to death.
everything is vivid, right? Monthsary reveal nga hahahahaha kiddin
I might take u up on that HAHAHAHA, doon sa first was february 3, 2015. Tas august 12, 2017 si selosa. U know what? Yoko na sabihin yung sa iba baka lumabas identity ko HAHAHAHAHA
wala naman name reveal ee hahahahahaha go na
HAHAHAHHA may mga kilala ako nandito rin sa reddit baka mabasa. Wag ka na mag-insist.
HAHAHAHHAHHAHA titignan ko nga anong monthsary mo may sumpa
sino pinakamatagal mong naging ka-rs?
Longest 3yrs kay selosa. The rest, months lang inabot.
omg, may sumpa talaga 3 years. 😭😭😭
Nakaka-overthink kayo. Buti na lang single ako HAHAHAHAHA.
Pero it’s nice to see yung vulnerable side niyo. Kayang kaya niyo magmahal without expecting anything in return. Mamahalin na lang nang tahimik. MAGING MASAYA SANA TAYONG LAHAT!!! 🤍
literally what every women feels rn while reading all of these JAHAHASSHAHAHA
tru HAHAHA
Up HAHAHAHAHAH
First and last ex ko kaso di nag work, immature at masyado pa kaming bata non
My ex. Target kong gf now is yung better sa kanya in all or some aspects. Sobrang Ganda and bait kasi. I tried dating na saktuhan lang, Di ako attracted hahaha
I think we all have that TOTGA that we will never forget. It may be because we weren't compatible at the time, or circumstances prevented us from being together, or a myriad other reasons, but there will always be that one person we will never forget
this is so true. 'coz someone came up to my mind while reading this :)) we all have our TOTGA, indeed
di applicable yan sa mga lalaking nakamove on na
Yes. Definitely.
Yeah minsan kasama sa regrets ko
Hawk tuah skills haha..
Yes. Your mom.
Yes
Yes, dated 11 years ago. Didn't work. Gave everything a second chance dito sa abroad for the past 3 months, didn't work again. Kilalang kilala niya ako, kuhang kuha ang "kiliti" ko. But i guess it just wasn't meant to be.
My mom
For me, every girl has their own identity, value or “branding” so mahirap na mag compare to other. They are beautiful in their own way. If wife mo na or gf mo na syempre siya na mag sstandout.
di lang sa lalaki yan. mapa-anong gender laging may totga o greatest love.
Yes! But i wanna know men's take on this ✍️✍️
Yes it's my wife !
haays only regrets
Yes 🥺🥹
Definitely there would always be someone one that will stand out compared to the rest of them… however I truly believe that u could be able to still find a better women compare to that measuring stick girl, its tough but its possible
Yes and I missed my shot with her. She was basically the most perfect human I've ever met. Beautiful inside and out. She's happily married now and I'm happy for her pero unfollowed her kasi nalulungkot ako whenever I see pictures of her on my feed. 😂
Do you mind sharing what happened?
I was fresh out of college studying for my board exam + working. I felt too much of life's pressure that I was too scared to commit.
Ohhh, nagtry ka ba win back sya or take shot again?
She was already taken by the time I felt like I was ready.
That’s sad nga ☹️ maybe in another lifetime you’ll have your chance. Move on and send her some love and light nalang. ✨ you’ll find who’s meant for you as well 🙂
yeah, that's life sometimes but I wish nothing but the best for her. she deserves nothing less.
Yeah this is true. Lalo na if she has a strong personality and may pagka non conformist.
Iba epekto nito. Mahirap makahanap ng ganiyan.
i can fix her
she's not even broken
I'll break her then
Ang conry mo
mama mo conry
Depende sa tao na yan. Wala sa gender.
And for me it is my partner. No one is above her. As it should.
❤️❤️❤️
Sana lagi ganito sagot!!!!!
Don't think this should apply sa mga mag bf/gf, iba pa ang mga priorities niyan.
More on dapat sa ikakasal o kasal na likely, kasi nandun na yung agreement na sila na talaga gang ikasal, gang tumanda. Gang gums na lang at wala nang ipin.
Idk I just find it weird sa mga nagjowa na tapos past partner pa yung nababanggit nila. Parang option or second best
Kaya I gave that note na baka hindi ito applicable with bf/gf, because hindi pa talaga sila sigurado with what they have.
Kahit nga siguro magasawa na may ganyan pa din.
At the end of the day, kanya kanya na lang talaga yan, not applicable to all.
yes.
youre ready to drop everything for her. in a heart beat.
Take your shot.
If not.
Maybe sa after life ☺️
Wag ka pumayag na mabottle up lang yang feelings na yan lalo na pag okay naman both circumstances niyo. If you are looking for a sign ito na yun. Go!
nabasa ko na lahat ng comments hanggang dulo pero binalikan ko to.. di ko alam kung anong maf-feel ko🥲
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