Idk if this will be seen in a sea of comments, but here’s my answer:
I lose my respect for the students of a certain supposedly respectable university that looks down upon other students who aren’t even disrespecting them, even if they are from sister schools (just imagine those that don’t study in their branches/sister schools). They have this air of arrogance in them whenever they speak, and they return your harmless words with contempt. At work, they are the “know-it-alls,” who delude themselves into thinking that they are too “smart” for a task, only to disappoint others with their ineffectiveness. How can people not lose their respect?
I rather have someone with less knowledge but more willingness to learn than someone with more knowledge but less willingness to learn.
Yung pag sila mamikon okay lang, pero pag sila na pinikon mo, bibigyan ka ng silent treatment. Tapos pag tatanungin if okay lang, okay lang daw wala problema.
Yung todo deny na May feelings pa sa ex niya, tapos nung ni-real talk mo na kase inistalk niya ginagawa ng ex niya, nagalit.
Yung pinapansin pa rin yung mga guys na May gusto daw sa kanya kahit alam niyang May jowa pala. Tapos magrereklamo samin pag chinat bigla ng gf, may pa sabi pang " jowa niya kausapin niya wag ako, jowa niya naman chat nang chat saken" , tapos nung binara mo na tigilan niya kakachat if May jowa na pala, or kaya corner na niya na alam niyang may gf si guy, wag daw kase , NAG EENJOY SIYA.
Ang isa pa sa ayaw ko sa tao, walang right table manners. It was rubbed to me by my late father and late elder sister, that they hated rude table manners.
1) Yung kung ngumuya, OA, yung bukang buka ang pag nguya. Closed mouth chewing is table manners for me, kahit chicharron o lechon o anything crispy food pa yan.
2) Panay kalatog ng utensils sa pinggan.
3) Yung may pag halinghing pa sa pagkain.
4) Turn off din sa akin yung compliments sa pagkain o sa dami ng kinakain ko. Parang PG lang dating sa akin nun.
5) Yung nagsasalita na ang mouth is full. Lulunin mo muna yang kinakain mo bago ka magsalita.
6) Yung ginagawa ng majority ng Mukbangers, yung para kang PG kumain o parang di ka pinakain ng ilang araw. No offense sa mga idolising Mukbang o those who engage in them and believes that it was part of Korean culture, pero for me, it's a turn off.
7) Food Porn was tolerable, pero I don't like when the food was too much overexposed to cameras, especially my food.
8) Loud slurping sounds. Yes, kahit sabihin nating compliments yun sa nagluto, medyo lay it low please.
Yung walang alam sa social etiquette. I get it na not everyone knows all of it, but at least know what courtesy is in public places like
Kapag nasa elevator na punuan tapos may lalabas sa specific na floor, at least do the gesture na to step out of the elevator para hindi naman sardinas yung sa elevator.
Saying “excuse me” when passing through a crowd.
Keeping your mouth shut kapag may nagsasalita pa 🙃
Ilan lang to sa mga dapat alamin about social etiquette. Wag naman maging bastos
Yung mga may masters degree in gaslighting. Ipapa feel na kasalanan mo kahit sila naman ang may problema. Sagana to sa boomers na allergic sa accountability
Pasensya na kung merong masaktan sa sagot ko. Nakakainis ang kausap mo ng Tagalog sabay English ang sagot. Paglumipat ka na sa English, balik naman sila ng Tagalog. Wala akong problema sa Taglish.
Non confrontational yung tipong konting critic mo lang nagtatampo na agad or nagiging pa victim tas bibigyan ka ng silent treatment instead na pag usapan. This is not limited to relationships this applies to work environment too.
Yung biglang tampo. Like, dahil lang hindi sumama sa gala for some reasons tapos mag tatampo bigla. Mind you, they won't even reply to you or chat you. It's not like ini-invalidate ko feelings niya, but sometimes if you know the reason they can't come, don't tampo, please. Tapos lalong mag tatampo kase hindi sinuyo? Dude, you don't even try to communicate sa amin tapos kapag hindi sinuyo tatampo ka lalo. Ang reason kase minsan, "minsan nalang tayo gumala" ayon na nga, like wala na bang next time? Hindi kase sumang-ayon sa ngayong araw yung plano ko sa gala natin. Nakaka off minsan yung ugaling niya na ayaw makilag communicate sa amin eh.
Struggling with people like these lately. Yung alam mong di nila masikmura kapag nasayo yung puri ng tao & they're already plotting kung paano ka malalamangan. In the end, everything you do tinatry nilang "gayahin but better". The heck 🫠
Andiyan lang pag may kailangan
Di nagbabayad ng utang as promised
Mayabang kahit walang wala
Di nakikinig pag ikaw na nagsalita
Narcissist
Time waster! Pinaninindigan ang Filipino Time
For me, yung iko compliment ang pagkain ko, either sasabihing "wow, kaya mo yan?", or "ang sarap naman niyan" . For me kasi, parang ang sagwa kasi pakinggan na pupurihin kinakain mo, eh para namang PG yun, sa akin lang yun.
And I was drilled by my late dad and elder sister on right table manners and right conduct in regards sa food.
Kaya nga din minsan, may contempt ako sa mukbang, dahil sa table manners.
Palaaway and feeling niya sa kanya umiikot ang mundo (“Feeling ko may galit siya sakin kasi…” “Inadd ako ni ano, kala naman niya may chance siya sakin”)
narcissist and being close minded, like bakit hindi sila aware or open sa mga gano'n na topics? like may certain topics na hindi nila maicomprehend kaya puro nonsense ang pinag kukuda.
Yung walang isang salita lalo na sa usaping utang. Okay lang naman ma delay or mag change ng date sa usapang bayaran pero yung di nagkekeep sa usapan, or di na sumasagot bigla pag nag follow up ka. hayysss!
Hindi lang yung bullshit filipino time ha, pinag iintay ako not because late dumating but instead, nag iintay ako kasi late umalis. This is a scenario where i often encounter it.
I'm an academic tutor and ESL teacher, i have this one student (we do face to face classes) na dalwa kaming tutor nya and most of the time kapag may exam sya magkasunod kaming mag tuturo nung other tutor, madalas nag uusap kami ng schedule para di hassle. May usapan na nga, alam nya anong oras ako dadating mag eextend pa rin which will make me wait. Feeling ko ineextend nya na lang unnecessarily since per hour ang bigayan sa amin eh.
Nakakainis yung napagusapan nyo na nga pagdating mo aantayin mo pa magprepare. Considering na nakikisabay lang naman. Alam naman na kaya maaga kasi heavy traffic. Sa huli matraffic ka rin dahil tanghali na kayo lalarga.
Superficial af. Yung type na you'll judge people for what they wear, put too much of an effort into your own appearance, even judge couples when one is "uglier" than the other.
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