Chatting. Social media. People na lata. Yung sobrang ingay, wala naman laman. I've withdrawn from those kinds of people na. Walang point makipag-interact.
I really lost interest in chatting and flirting, when I was in my teenage years I used to enjoy flirting and mahilig makipag bolahan pero ngayon wala na, it just nakakasawa din pala makipag lokohan ng mga words and everything
Life in general. I’m not planning to off myself ha. I often describe myself as someone with a D3th wish but not scdal. It’s just that life after 30 has become so difficult. No longer a young adult to pursue one’s passion but not that old, like being stuck in the middle with nowhere to go and not knowing how to move forward. Skepticism is at its peak.
Going out with people/friends. I'm only in my mid-20s pero ang bilis madrain ng social battery ko. I prefer going out alone. It's not that I don't like hanging out with friends. Siguro 1-3 hours lang na magkasama, yan na yung max. 🥹
Sometimes going out makes me so tired and I no longer have interest makipag kwentuhan ng husto sa ibang tao. Lalo na pag chismis lang and about someone's life, parang mas lalong nakaka drain ng mind kasi ang dami na ngang iniisip sa personal life and work tapos dagdag isipin pa yung kinukwento sayo na most of the time naman problema hahaha
Going out. Mundane na lahat at nakakapagod, kahit pumunta ka sa magagandang resort or lugar. Pagnasa labas ako, lalo ko lang naiisip na mas nag-eenjoy pa sana ko sa bahay.
Pag-uuwi ko sa ganyang vacation ang nasa utak ko lang "yun na yung 10k?" Nag order nalang sana ko ng fast food. Di naman ako mahilig sa socmed kaya wala narin akong pake sa external validation para magpost kaya lalo akong tinatamad lumabas.
Hustle culture. Yung coffee na lang nagpapatakbo sayo levels. Puyatan.
At one point in my life, i had to juggle 3 clients and a small biz. Got really sick and after that, just chose 1 premium client.
Quality rest is a priority now. Tired of the nightlife and drinking. I prefer staying home and binge-watching on weekends, most of the time binge-watch while nag aayos ng mga tupiin and decluttering din minsan.
playing videogames and watching movies and tv shows. di na ako tulad nung college na kaya buong araw sa tapat ng laptop. ngayon inaabot na agad ako ng pagkabagot o antok.
So COVID hit & my mental health went to shit. That was one of the few times I felt unrestrained freedom to play video games & watch Netflix. Problem is...
It got old pretty quick.
And it lost all fun & thrill when that was all that I did. As to how I started my self-improvement journey...
Well, one thing I figured back then was that since I had TOO MUCH free time, might as well set a goal & reach it.
I really wanted to have abs for a long time, so I decided to set fitness as a goal.
Learned cooking & meal prepped
Learned about macros & that I should be eating more protein than I was
Learned about some gym routines
Result? In one year, I went from 67 kg to 53 kg. Abs were visible, & when I went to Boracay, I was the proudest I would have ever been!
Next... I noticed in the pandemic that most business owners in my circle needed websites made. So?
I learned web design.
Helped them all out, then helped them with other aspects in digital marketing for them afterwards to the best of my ability.
Result? I fixed up my LinkedIn with those experiences, & I'm scouted randomly by recruiters from big multinationals willing to pay me P70-80k/mo.
Finally? I went from full-on introvert to someone who loves to talk to strangers by starting with dating apps & asking to talk to strangers IRL.
It was an awkward experience at the start, but in the end, I eventually got really used to it that I sometimes hit up girls outside & give them compliments & sometimes get them on dates on the spot.
During the pandemic, I hated that it happened because all my plans got derailed.
Now? I'm thankful it did because it gave me the reset I needed to pick my life back together. :)
This!! I find most people i follow on instagram, friends and acquaintances are the same too. Less selfies and more moments of fun with friends / family or travel photos nalang.
Looking back i used to do my makeup and dress up at home pa just to take selfies but now i just don't have the energy nor see the need for it. Fun times 🤣
When I was in college, I have this dream of becoming a brand manager for a brand. But di lahat ng gusto natin nakukuha natin. Now, nasa ibang industry and work na ako. I’m losing interest na sa gusto kong career path
yung black out na inom, sagad sagad na gastos sa gala yung talagang zero na tapos ang line mo na is Lord will provide and yung FWB.
ewan habang natanda ako na realize ko na i can splurge naman sa mga travels yuung di ko need mag tipid pero atthe same time may matitira padin sakin after, natutunan ko din kase in a hard way pano maging financially responsible hahahhaha hirap nun sobra
Relationship and Dating, may makikilala ka na bago na mukhang ok, getting to know each other, you go out tapos marerealize mo di pala kayo compatible. Either sa life goals, unresolved issues, traumatic experience or simply narealize nyo na di pa pala kayo ready sa relationship kasi wala pa kayo sa tamang headspace to deal with each others baggages, then rinse and repeat lang.
Video games, I used to be so into battle royale. I go to computer shops to play then. Said my life would be complete if only I had higher specs enough to play ROS.
Fast forward, I've got high enough specs for that. But ROS is nowhere to be found. I can't enjoy PUBG the same. I don't think I'll enjoy ROS or any battle royale anymore, for that matter;(
A fast paced and overstimulating life. I'm still catching myself rushing myself to make things in life interesting but in general, life feels much better when it's just slow and steady.
Work. Passion ko sa work. Because of so many factors, na compromise na yung commitment ko sa work. Pati yung mental health ko na somehow nakaka affect nadin sa physical health.
Reading books. Bookworm pa naman ako from high school up to when I started working from home. The last book I finished reading took me a month, and this was maybe 5 years ago. I still go to book fairs to buy books I want to read, but when I actually sit down to start reading, I'd find myself reaching for the phone and mindlessly scroll and end up losing interest
About to be 30 this year and kind of hating myself for losing interest in computer games. Imagine you in HS/college, would do anything to have your own PC and internet. Now that you have both, you just don't have the energy to play anymore.
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