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AIO upset at GF because responded to an ex's F*** buddy attempt to reconnect
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Idk the main thing I would focus on is the fact that she told you about it. Imo if she still had feelings for this guy or was "leaving the door open" for him, she would not have even told you. Also this guy may be friends with her friends and since your relationship is still young maybe she just doesn't want to spread the news quite yet before she fully vets you.
I'd say let this one go, but keep a casual eye out. Nurture honesty, if you punish people for the truth they will stop giving it to you.
Well said, truthfully I don’t think she had any bad intent. Outside of this I’ve only admired and loved everything I’ve come to know about her. She works hard as a nurse, takes care of her family, and has done plenty of sweet things to show me her affection. She really does not give me cheater vibes at all. But really the only thing I can think of as to why she wouldn’t make it known that she was taken was because she enjoyed the attention. Which isn’t exactly cheating but it’s definitely not right
She works hard as a nurse
She really does not give me cheater vibes at all.
Some not so fun fact is that nursing is a profession where infidelity is higher than normal.
Could be emotional cheating sure, but this is the first time. Obviously keep an eye on it, but avoid getting paranoid, that shit sneaks up on you and is impossible to get over (at least for me).
Honestly I would apologize to her and move on. Just say something like sorry I over reacted, thank you for telling me about stuff like this. I want us to be honest with each other blah blah.