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AIO for my boyfriend cheating on me because he found out my bodycount?
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Lol, not even a little surprised.
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Seriously, this reads like a mad kind of incel fan fiction.
Is it any good is the real question
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Darren is a loser. The body count thing doesn't really have anything to do with him cheating on you, he just cheated on you. You are not overreacting.
The only way for Darren to be in the right here is if your body count refers to how many people you murdered.
That would mean it's about to be 13 and Darren is next.
does murder really justify infidelity?
If my husband ever does, I will let you know 🤣
I mean, infidelity justifies murder. So, it only makes sense that murder justifies infidelity. That’s just the transitive property.
I know quite a few people who believe the opposite to be true!
And if that was it then Darrens just an idiot playing with fire. My husband doesn't need to know my body count to know not to push me. My decades of police dramas, forensic, crime scene, and documentaries I have watched is telling enough.
Yikes
LOL, you would think people would think twice about cheating with all the shows that show you how to get rid of the body 🤣
Yeah you can’t really equate body count which is past tense to cheating in a relationship. Nothing excuses cheating.
THIS!! He wanted to cheat and this was his excuse. Leave him. Yesterday.
You can add loser to it the list of red flags. A bit of unsolicited advice, keep you count to yourself. Guys tend to brag. Women just matter of fact like. It came up with a the woman I hanging out with. She told me hers. 1 it kinda bugged me, but I reminded myself i was sleeping with her too. 2 it kinda made me feel like I needed to step up my game. Little boy stuff ya know. Sorry. Don’t know what I did to make it bold or how to undo.
When you use "#" it makes texts bigger I've been told
but now you're not alone and you can undo it by editing your comment and listing your numbers like 1. & 2.
So if you put a # anywhere in the sentence, it’ll make it bold? Nope just the front of the sentence.
Now we’re a throuple, kinda like OP and Darren.
lol thanks y’all.
Learning has occured
And definitely do not give darren a second chance
No your not overreacting, nothing justifies cheating
Yeah I can’t believe a body count of 12 is justification in his mind to cheat on his GF. This guy is a doosh and asshole. As a male, don’t give this guy a second chance.
Like you said 12 isn’t that high, he is just a cheating asshole
Exactly, 12 isn’t even very high 😶
Also before I read you comment properly, what I saw was the sentence “he is just a casserole”
12 at 18 is pretty damn high.
That's where I'm at lmao 12 at 18.... damn. Not slut shaming or anything haha but 12 at 18 is def high lol. People are crazy. This in no way means dude was valid in his insecurity cheating though.
Just dump him. Clearly your lifestyles are not compatible and his reaction is ridiculous. If he is upset about your body count he should have just ended things not cheated on you.
Best comment here
He cheated. He broke the rules of the relationship you have with him. He did this over a trivial issue in your relationship. What’s he going to do down the line?
For people in future relationships, don’t ask the previous partner question unless you are absolutely sure you are fine with any answer. Personally, I don’t ask. I don’t care, but I’d rather not know.
I am older, so maybe I don’t understand. Why is it necessary for every bf/gf to know your body count? Your not a fiancé. EDIT: for those who comment and don’t read comments, the only reason I put fiancé is because if it is that important to know body count I would think it would be more important if you actually plan on marriage. It is not personally important to me, as I think the entire thing is foolish.
I think "having to know" is a symptom of personal insecurity.
I gotcha. In my generation we don’t even discuss such nonsense. It’s more important to know if a partner has a STD.
I'm in my late 20s, technically gen Z and I know no one who would have a debate about body count lol. I truly wonder if at some point some weird cut-off between people in their early and late 20s happened or if it's just an American thing.
Idk, I am Gen X, my generation, body count means how many people someone has killed.
This is what i wanna say every time.
You weren’t raised via YT and TikTok algorithms.
I genuinely worry about these kids. They’re so fucked when they hit the real world and realize none of it resembles their internet fantasies.
It's a "spend too much time reading manosphere shit on the internet" thing
I have a toxic ex that bothered me about this for the length of our relationship (among other things), yet I would never disclose to him. He was also constantly harping about monogamy and faithfulness yet always undermined me because he thought, "I was too good to be true to not be cheating on him."
We eventually split, and then I got the lovely bombshell that he started cheating on me, only 3 months into our 3 year partnership. He also admitted to going through my phone and emails trying to find evidence of my infidelity - yet found none.
The projection is real for a lot of folks.
Sure but what young man in his 20s isn't insecure? I mean, throw a stone.
But there's a difference between insecure men who ask and insecure men who don't. That difference is the question.
Why would you need to know your fiance's "body count"? Grow up.
Yeah, I've been with my wife for eight years (three married) and we've never had this conversation.
To act as if body count can’t ever be an issue is also a crazy take. It’s never a reason to cheat, he should have asked a lot earlier in the relationship. But to act as if everyone should have no care whatsoever about their partners past isn’t right either and has nothing to do with growing up.
i mean, someone whos slept with a lot of people wont be compatible with me, because i value sex and i dont think its something to be done with just anyone. Clearly if you have a high body count you think differently.
His cheating has nothing to do with your “Body Count”. He’s just a lying, cheating POS. and will never ever change.
Dump the jerk. Be on the lookout for a partner that celebrates you and your sexuality!
Not over reacting.
You deserve better.
Don't just be tempted. End things.
Never second guess dumping a human sized trash can into the dump.
Hun, any man who would do this to someone they love based on their past personal sex life is an absolute loser who doesn't deserve you. This man is 24 and acting like a 12 year old. People like that don't change because they truly don't think they did anything wrong.
What's next? He finds out that you spent money without discussing it with him so he takes revenge by maxing out all of your credit cards? Because you deserved it for buying yourself something nice. Finds out that you are confiding in a best friend so he decides he needs to have sex with her because, what? You have discussed your sex life so it's only fair he has sex with her so she can see his side?
I mean those examples are ridiculous but would you put it past him? Can you ever truly trust him? Because there's no way in hell a man like him is going to change. He's petty and vengeful and immature.
Also, I'm not in the habit of throwing this around but the guy sounds like a malignant narcissist who get's a thrill out of hurting you by cheating on you because you had intimate relationships before you met him.
Dump that son of a bitch, wipe off your hands and move on with your life. Find a man who respects you.
When you break up with him, tell Darren to never ask a question he doesn't want an answer to.
I don't know my wife's bodycount. I've never known any girlfriend's bodycounts. All I know is I'm not the first and that's all I need to know. At best, she's inexperienced. At worst, she's got a higher body count than me.
Why would I want to know this information? It serves no purpose.
Any guys reading this, never ask about the body count. There's no joy to be found on that road.
You can have whatever opinion you want about someone’s body count in a relationship, but cheating is so cowardly and inexcusable. He could’ve simply broken up with her.
Don’t be on the verge of ending things.
Just do it.
This is so immature. He did this out of spite and revenge.
What’s the next thing he’s going to do to punish you when there’s something he doesn’t like?
Dude needs to grow up.
12 really isn’t that crazy. He wants a tradwife stay at home mom innocent helpless 19 year old. Tell him to find one
Guuurlllll, put him OUT. ‼️‼️ Get rid of him and keep it pushing. If you both are well into your relationship and he just found out then what does it matter what was done before him? I think him choosing to retaliate by cheating himself is more indicative about his character than whatever your body count was before you got together.
This has already been posted.
No you aren't... He sounds insecure.
Your boyfriend cheated on you. You didn’t cause him to cheat on you. He chose to cheat on you. You are NOT overreacting.
That is so immature. Tell him to kick rocks. 12 is not a high number nor should “body count” even matter.
i know girls that are pushing 100 in their early 20s.
As a parent, I'm hoping mine and my wife's love for our daughter makes it so she doesn't have to look for it other places.
100 is crazy💀
Used more than a toilet at a football stadium.
Like body count isn’t a big deal but 100 is just ridiculous lol and honestly really anything near that 😂
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Replying to SomeYesterday1075... I think your body count is absolutely normal. I’m 38 and I don’t know anyone around our age who has slept with that many people. Well, except for one person but she herself admits to being a bit ‘loose’.
You never know if those kids were lying or they have some insecurities and need validation through sleeping with strangers.
I bet they were lying. Yours is a more average, normal number. Sounds like they were competing with each other in their bragging.
The rules seem to be to double what women say and halve what men say, due to social pressures.
The average in most wealthy countries is ten or less.
I am saying it's bad lol.
Yeah, this blew my mind
You're not overreacting. But you are reacting to the wrong thing. He cheated on you. Doesn't matter why.
He broke the cardinal rule, he used sex as a weapon. I say good riddance he showed his true colors sooner rather than later. You should ask him if he was one of those 12 guys in your past would he have passed up on you because some future boyfriend might be upset? I think not I also think you should get yourself a new boyfriend because when you look at the big picture those guys in your past I took part in making you the lover that you are today. The lover that your boyfriend has been benefiting from and enjoying. And having a body count of 12 is just an even dozen and nothing more 10 years from now you might be into triple digits and no one can judge you because they don't know the situation and conditions that brought it about. It's very plausible you could have loved 12 guys at this age. This is just the tip of the iceberg with this kind of behavior he's always going to look for an excuse to cheat and you'll also always bring you in the end
Darren fuckin stupid
The fact is that he cheated and you didn't.
Do NOT give him a second chance.
Body count before entering a relationship is irrelevant to trust within in. I assume y'all agreed to be exclusive. He broke the trust because of something you did before you met him. That's horseshit. If it was that important he had the opportunity to ask before y'all entered into a relationship. If he's going to do this for petty reasons now ... you really think he won't cook up some bullshit excuse to juatify breaking other agreements you make?
Throw the whole man child out.
Just break up with him. He cheated and that's a bad thing also he will never let go of your body count so better break up now.
As a promiscuous man, I hear this same story from women so often. Most women have encountered a man like you have described.
This all just goes back to those statistics on romantic pairings and selection bias though. The top ~30% of men get way more women than the vast majority of other men. Because of this disparity, there are just simply tons of dudes out there that will probably only have sex with 2 or 3 people their whole lives. So a lot of these statistically "average" men are less sexually experienced than most women they meet by the time they are out of college. I think this is what breeds the jealousy and insecurity so many women unfortunately have to deal with in the dating world. It's dumb lower brain stem behavior. But it makes sense, I suppose.
You'll meet a guy that accepts and love you, I definitely prefer a woman has a solid past of sexual encounters. I don't want to be your first, and if I fall in love I definitely want to be your last!
Don't give him a second chance. That's ridiculous. His insecurities are not a valid excuse for his behavior. That is gaslighting, he is trying to convince you it is your fault that he did something bad. Do not let him convince you that you are the one who messed up! You didn't lie to him. Get out now, if you don't it's just going to get worse.
Dump his ass. He can grow out of that idiotic take or he can find himself a "ripe virginal yadda yadda yadda" or w/e else that type of manosphere douche want in a woman. Someone without a shred of self respect for him to own.
He cheated on you. Move on. He's a weenie.
Darren is an idiot. Plain and simple.
What other bad things will he feel justified in doing in the future?
He scares me!
You did nothing wrong!
He’s just an asshole trying to gaslight you. Leave.
So because he can't handle the idea of someone having a life before they met him, he gets to cheat.
Darren is a loser who doesn't deserve another second of your precious time on this planet.
Baby boys gonna have to learn to deal someday, but you don't have to teach him anything, he already cancelled the whole lesson plan with you by betraying you instead of talking about his feelings first.
Darren needs quality help, you need a quality guy and he’s not it!
Why are you even asking? Dump this AH.
I’m furious for you or anyone calling it a “body count”. It’s disrespectful to the people you’ve been with, And shows how little some people think of others.
As far as anyone having sex with someone else just because you have had sex with more people than they have? Yea, you can do much better in terms of people with emotional security and respect for others.
End things, move on, Darren sucks.
Doesn’t really matter what you think about body count, he cheated… its doomed, just end it for both of you
Darren will never stop cheating on you, he's just working you up to accepting this
if it wasnt about your body count it wouldve been about something else
Why does a bodycount matter?
He cheated. Thats the only thing to consider.
20 whole people?!? s/ 🙄
People who get upset about this stuff are children emotionally. He is insecure about something. Sounds like a real chore to be around. Think about if it’s worth it for you.
Ghost him - he deserves zero from you. Why is it all men think they’re entitled to sleep with virgins, even after they’ve had sex with 50 other girls?
Please leave this man. Men who care about body count only want to know so it can boost their ego because they don't want to be the first or the last. That hurt puppy named Darren got his feelings hurt. Please break up him.
Lol if he's upset about 12 he's got another thing coming.. not over reacting.
Not overreacting. End things.
12 people at 18? Yeah you’re a thot. Also why is Darren piping a teenager?
If anything you are underreacting for still calling him boyfriend.
Cheating is inexcusable. Why does he need revenge? Cause you're more experienced and that emasculates him because he is so fragile? He is a child.
The only thing a partner has any right to be uncomfortable about is you still seeing people you slept with while you're with him. If you slept with your friends (who you still hang out with), then that is something you should tell a partner about. Regardless cheating helps nothing, so dump him yesterday and move on.
Over 12 guys???? Girl. You deserve better. That’s not even a high body count. You’ve had a few relationships and maybe a hookup/situationship or two? That is so normal and reasonable (and also not for everyone if you’re not into that sort of thing)
His behavior is manipulative and classic gaslighting. He’s trying to blame you for his own shitty actions without showing any remorse. Is this how you want things to go on? Drop the sack of shit. You’ll feel so much lighter <3
Your EX boyfriend (he is an ex now, right?) is an insecure widdle baby. 12 isnt even remotely a lot for your average 20-something. What a loser.
Nothing just heating. Dump him.
I've read this exact post before, I'm almost sure of it.
No second chances needed or deserved
You would not be over reacting, your bf (hopefully soon to be ex) was jealous over PAST relationships! Throw the whole guy away you deserve so much better 💕
You have some past relationships, as many do. But Darren is an active cheater. There's no such thing as getting even or matched. Let's pretend there is; you'd have to bring up the numbers around the first date and open the relationship from there until you're even. And then you proceed ? I'll see myself out.
You lived your life. He did what he did out of some kind of fit and he cheated. You weren't with him when you slept with those guys. You're not over reacting.
None of his business pre- relationship. He’s an AH. Run.
Nope
Darren is a child.
What would your reaction have been if he just broke up with you instead?
I’m not OP, but I’ve seen friends go through that scenario. Typically they are hurt for a day or two because break ups suck. Then they are relieved when they realize they just dodged a huge bullet. The insecurity and possessiveness required to be upset by such meaningless info always rears its head eventually, it’s best when that happens before things get serious.
I don't actually know my girlfriend's body count because I don't care. All that mattered to me was safety (i.e., test results). Beyond that, body count doesn't matter. I don't understand why people get so worked up about it.
I’ll never understand why men freak out over body count. What a silly fucking thing to lose the plot over
Cut your losses and run.
He cheated on you because… you had a sexual history before him?? Holy shit, that is beyond unhinged. I can’t imagine what he’d do for other imagined slights against him. Imagine all of the petty, spiteful revenge you’re in store for if you stay with this man! And guess what? It will be aaallllllllll your fault!!
Flee. This guy is a walking garbage bag made of red flags.
Break up, move on. 12 is nothing, but even if it was 120, his behavior is still and will never be justified.
He cheated on you. You didn’t cheat on him. Is your allegedly higher body count justification in his mind for him to catch up? Dump that loser.
he claims it's wayy too high for a girl
Loser trash.
Run away, you'll be better for it.
End it. he seems very immature
Leave that insecure loser Cheaters never change
Nope not overreacting. He can’t take revenge for something that you didn’t do to him. If he was that concerned about your body count then he should have addressed that at the beginning of the relationship. What happens when you actually do something that annoys him or he takes offence to?
There is a pretty good chance Darren only told you that he cheated on you, but did not actually
Sounds like a piece of shit. You can do better.
Darren belongs to the streets. I hope you find your peace!
You are not overreacting, that's absolutely insane. Definitely do not give him a second chance. Anyone who cares about your "body count" isn't worth sticking around for.
Take that temptation and make it into a reality, sis. Guess what, its not gonna be just this time he cheats on you. Next time he gets pissed he'll cheat, and then the next time and the time after that, and every time he'll come back and say you are over reacting and that *you* forced him to do it by making him angry. Just drop him now and save yourself the trouble.
Tell Darren he can also sleep with 12 guys.
I feel like you could have just written this post, read it out loud and got your answer without actually posting it.
A reason to cheat on someone doesn't exist in the history of forever. No second chances on this matter. It's over.
You don’t owe anyone a rundown of how many people you slept with. He never asked. Dump him. He cheated on you.
I'd say you're under reacting for only being on the verge of it.
12? In a row?
You’re being gaslit. You already know you’re not overreacting.
You're not overreacting. Send Darren away.
He cheated, plain and simple. End it now. Once a cheat, always a cheat. I gave my ex wife a second chance after she cheated and she did it again 6 years later. Divorced her months later.
Drop that loser. Only pathetic men are going to care about how many people you slept with before you were together with them. Only people who want to cheat will cheat, he didn’t do it because of your “body count” he did it because he is a cheater, he will (not might) keep cheating.
I mean if it happened before you you should have asked. Can't get mad if it happened before you because you went around. You were in some other chick or dude or bro. Just end it with them. He did it. Now he'll do it later. He has a lot of anger and insecurity for something you didn't do to him while you were together. There's no explanation because you'd be faithful with him. His lost your gain
Not overreacting. Darren needs to grow up. 12 isn’t even a high number anyway. You could do that in a year just casually dating. He broke your relationship by cheating. You did nothing wrong. Taking him back with just embolden him to do it again or that he could just sabotage the relationship in some other way and be forgiven.
I'm not even bothering to read all of the responses on here. Hit the road and don't look back. "Payback", even if its justified(it's not in this instance) has no place in an adult relationship.
BTW, your bodycount is just fine. Fuck him.
break up with him ASAP and don't look back for a single second
He’s a child and a loser. Dump his fragile ass.
If you haven't broken up yet you are under reacting
Darren was looking for a reason and found one. His logic makes no sense. I have been with my fiance for 5 years and we have never discussed it. It's not relevant to the relationship. Do not give him a second chance for shaming and then punishing you for what you did before you knew him.
I'm on the verge of ending things with my boyfriend Darren (24M) because he cheated on me.
Why haven't you broke up with him yet?
Red flag run away don’t walk
😂😂😂😂😂 this is funny as hell
Your body count is your business, and has nothing to do with him cheating. He's not worth your time. Dump him fast, and find someone better.
Most men get upset about the number not because of anything other than they themselves can never attract anybody it’s not about some dumb little moral they have it’s because they themselves cannot find people like that it’s how guys cope with this these days no offense to your standards but if he could attract more than one girl every decade his count would be in the 100s you sure he actually cheated lol I would assume he made it up
No, it’s not worth a second chance. He cheated because he wanted to or to punish you, neither are good reasons. Not that there a good reason to cheat. I would’ve also assumed a “don’t ask don’t tell” approach to body count. That’s the past if you care about you better ask.
Not an overreaction.
Tell him to a) grow up and b) pound sand.
He is insecure, dump him.
Darren is an idiot. I wouldn't even be surprised if your body count had zero to do with his cheating. It's just an excuse.
Honestly cheating alone, if he were remorseful, would be more acceptable than this excuse.
I would never ask that question of someone and I would never divulge that info to anyone. It’s my business.
You didn’t lie to him, and if he didn’t ask, you were safe in assuming he didn’t care to know. Your life before you connected with your bf is absolutely zero justification for him to betray you. Zero.
If he had an issue after finding out your past, his options were to deal with it or break up with you.
This guy should be kicked to the curb, and traded in for someone with actual integrity.
Sounds like a crappy relationship. Save both of you the trouble and end it, today.
Lord, Run away from Darren. Used Pre-Darren events to blame u for. He will cheat and resent you for it. He needs serious work
I'll be blunt: dude has insecurities and will always hold it against you. My advice is to let him go because it'll always be an argument between you two and cheating is trust breaking, why be with someone that is so mentally insecure and officially untrustworthy. 12 guys??? Whatever. My attitude would be, to quote Jack Nicholson as The Joker, "wait till they get a load of me" no pun intended
He’s toxic and long term he will cause you a lot of grief. What does 12 previous guys even matter? If you are 24 as well, that’s only 2 guys per year since you were 18, I mean I have a few friends who are just happy if they keep it under 5 new guys a week. Fuck this dude, he’s a loser, find someone better.
This revenge cheating is the sign of a very emotionally immature, insecure man. Are you sure you want this person as a spouse in your life? Every lover you had was before him, entirely. A spouse's prior "body count" is a really immature thing to hang the success or love in a relationship with.
How is his cheating revenge? What did you do, lie, cheat, steal?
He's a cheating pos, dump him and find a guy who treats you what you are worth
sounds like an immature little twit.
What he did was ABSOLUTELY wrong, and justifying it through cheating is immature thinking. Sooner or later body count will come up in a relationship and does need to be discussed. Your post doesn't mention how long you have been exclusive with him and I'm assuming you have been intimate with him. If you have been intimate the conversation should have taken place. Research has shown most people are not honest with their body count. If someone says 5 you can double or triple it. No matter how many it doesn't justify cheating. In your next relationship, I would have this conversation early before becoming intimate as it might save bigger problems. I believe based on what you have shared this relationship is flaming out fast. Good luck to you.
All things aside, do you want to be with someone who hurts you intentionally. Who does so out of a desire for revenge? Who is sexist? who.. oh for fucks sake how is this even a question
Move on to 13!
Tell him don't worry, you know he'll never cheat on you again. Then tell him to pack up.
Dump his ass. Is that going to be his reaction whenever there is an imagined disagreement/slight/argument.
How immature does he need to be before you kick him to the curb. He's highly unlikely to change for the better but rather get worse when he doesn't see any consequences.
He is a lying, cheating asshole and he’s full of shit. He didn’t cheat for revenge or over your body count, he cheated because he wanted to. And then he blames you for it.? Oh Hell No.
Do not put up with that bullshit. Leave him. You deserve better, but you will never get it as long as you’re wasting your time on that awful asshole.
Darren is a piece of shit, and not worth your time. Drop that garbage and move on with your life.
12 is not a high number of previous partners.
And please don’t call it “body count.” That’s cringy af.
You're done, you just haven't told him yet. He sounds like a boob. You'll be much better off without him.
Once trust is lost it's over.
Not to mention him doing it for revenge?
Yeah. Immature asshole.
This guy sounds immature af. My wife had a much larger body count than me when we got together. Who gives af. It’s the past. As long as she ain’t cheating.
Why would you give him a second chance? He cheated on you and has zero remorse. He’s a broken man child who exists purely to stroke his own fragile little ego. Being single is better than another day with this loser
Discussing body count never ends well
He sounds a complete douchebag. The reason he cheated isn't important. It's petty really. The fact that he did it at all is the matter at hand, he was just looking for an excuse. Lose the dead weight.
Let’s just change this to “my boyfriend cheated” end of story. Doesn’t matter what his “reason” was and I hope you do leave
Out of curiosity, what is his body count? I bet it’s higher but he thinks that’s ok bc he is a man.
Bruh you know girls pushing 100 in their early 20s I'm not a body count snob myself (in fact I'm not even one to ask) but 100 in their early 20s?!?
I don't even wanna fuck that many people lol
Do not give him a second chance.
He is making his insecurity and toxic attitudes your problem. What on earth is he getting payback for? You having a life before you met him?
As an inexperienced person I might feel a little intimidated if my partner had a high body count just because I’d be worried I wouldn’t measure up/they would judge me for my inexperience. (I’m not saying this is his reasoning/excuse. I’m assuming he’s just an asshole.)
But like, I would try to communicate that in a calm and nonjudgmental way. Like an adult. Instead of lashing out and cheating like an immature twerp.
Dump him and live a twerp-free life.
Never stay with anyone who has cheated on you even slightly, or even once.
Not only does this sound fake as hell, it's also literally a word for word repost from a week or two ago. This app is trash.
That’s about the most immature thing I’ve heard of in a while. I guess you just have to sleep with his dad next, right? Block and move on.
Get rid of him now. He’ll only get worse and start trying to control you
I say it’s not about what you did (most the time). It’s about how you conduct yourself going forward. I’ve dated gals with higher body counts than me and yet they were perfectly loyal and always told the truth. That, to me, is worth far more than any supposed value or pride lost on her past actions.
Darren is very insecure and time to get rid of him
You actually know someone pushing 100? Geez
Don't be "tempted" to end things. Just end things. Your boyfriend is a shitbag.
Sounds like an immature piece of shit to me
When I met my now wife, I think she was at like 13. The average for a woman in their lifetime is like 6 or 7, but who really gives a shit honestly. Her count was higher than mine but I also had spent most of my time in long term committed relationships and my wife lived a different lifestyle than me. For him to think that your number means anything shows me how immature he is. Life isn't one big competition to get the highest numbers. Sex isn't a sport. My wife's numbers aren't any better than mine. If I wanted higher numbers I could have just slept around and chased them but that isn't what I was looking for.
You should leave this person immediately. First of all. If he is willing to punish you like this for something you did before you even met, can you imagine what his response will be if heaven forbid you actually make any kind of mistake in your relationship? If you love someone, you don't hurt them out of spite. That's what a child does. If it takes that little for him to cheat on you then I 100% guarantee he will cheat again.
I read stories like this and just can't fathom how a person would get upset over something in the past that cannot be changed. Like seriously, what does Darren want you to do about it? It happened before him, nothing can be changed. Then to do what he did, makes no sense. I'm 48, and I am grateful I got to date and get married long ago before the craziness of how it is now. He deliberately cheated to get back at you for your past, when he wasnt in the picture? That is the most toxic thing I ever heard. Dump him.
He's a loser who used something from your past that he didn't like as an excuse to cheat on you.
Dump the loser. You can do better and keep your number to yourself.. it's no one's business.
For the love of fuck PLEASE LEAVE HIM. Oh my God.
You should be more than tempted. You should end things. He cheated on you, it really doesn't matter what his rationale is.
Three things: 1. If you’re a guy and you ask for a body count you’re a fool. 2. If you were foolish enough to ask; then don’t be surprised by the answer. Just break up with her. 3. Don’t ask her for a number. Understand that there may have been guys before you; just make sure that everyday you make her believe you’re the last guy.
I still laugh at the term bodycount. Ain’t no murder
Obviously no. Whatever your body count, that's not justification for cheating.
Ah, he's so immature... get out of that toxic relationship.
All the homies hate Darren 🖕🏽🖕🏽🖕🏽
Read the title of your post out loud to yourself. You don’t need additional input.
What the fuck, how is him cheating in any way shape or form anybody's fault but his?! Dump his ass like a bad habit.