Being honest is the best way to go, they won't be as judgemental as you imagine because it's coming from a place of kindness.
Alternatively. Tell them it's for Christmas gifts and you found good stuff. They probably won't question it and six months from now they won't do the math on what gifts you do give people.
There’s a lot of factors here. Are your parents rational and level headed people? Do they like your boyfriend? Will this hurt you financially, or you financially capable of this? I know this is a lot to ask. Ask yourself these questions.
I personally think the best course of action is to be honest. Weigh the negatives and positives.
Explain the situation. However, in my experience my parents were always understanding and trusting of me.
Never led money to anyone if you can’t afford for it to not be repaid. That’s a life lesson too many people learn the hard way.
Don’t lie. That’s another life lesson too many people learn the hard way. Tell them you loaned him money and will pay you back on X date. If he knows your parents know you loaned him money, that will put pressure on him to pay you back quickly.
How old are you? My Mom never had access to my bank account.
Be honest to your parents, you just wanted to help. Maybe its not the best way to spend your money but you care enough about your bf to make sure he wont be homeless because of a shitty room mate.
Being honest is the best way to go, they won't be as judgemental as you imagine because it's coming from a place of kindness.
Alternatively. Tell them it's for Christmas gifts and you found good stuff. They probably won't question it and six months from now they won't do the math on what gifts you do give people.