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am I seeing a genuine "we can always tell" comment on r/AccidentalAlly
Wow.
Looking at his comment history, he’s clearly like 10 years old. This is a good opportunity to stop the brain rot before it settles in [removed] ! Shit, I @‘d the wrong person, so sorry u/nololgoaway !
Fun fact! Any time you are tempted to use the phrase "usually always," that's a sign that you should think more about what you're trying to say.
“Usually always” is a line that belongs in Anchorman
You need to lookup survivor bias
Survivorship bias. You don’t see any passing trans people because they just look like cis people to you (and they typically don’t tell the “we can always tell” crowd). On top of that, placebo effect. Once you know someone is trans, (wether it’s true or not), you’re more likely to notice and imagine features of the other gender.
I mean, clearly not given the amount of people that think they can tell, yet always seem to mistake the cisgenders as trans and us transgenders as cis.
Wow, you know an actor who was out about being trans was trans? That feels like such a feat. How many other things can you know about people when they tell you?
Even then, you do realize that there have literally been trans people in movies and shows for years who haven't told anyone, right? So statistically speaking, no it isn't "usually always" obvious. I doubt it was actually obvious in this case either, but you just happened to be right when you went online to verify or not.
Wait, who was trans in Fallout?
I guess it was Burke? I haven't seen the show yet but apparently the character is played by a non-binary actor.
Confirmation bias dumbass. You've seen hundreds of trans people IRL and never "noticed" because you can't always tell.
I love how affirming the first one is in particular lol
That idiot in the last comment. The vast majority of medical innovation started as a "crude mockery of nature's perfection." Sooner or later, gender affirming surgery will reach a point of absolute perfection, just like any other meaningful medical goal. We definitely should have started working on it sooner though. And (hoping I live to see it), I'll remember this and laugh at the transphobes. Can't wait.
There was some solid progress, mostly in Berlin, but Nazi destruction of the hospitals & research institutions set back the art of the medical technology thirty years or more
Btw Alot of people love to forget/deny that Nazis targeted trans people too like this (looking at you Rowling)
Great use of resources
I'm sure your use of resources has been worse
How will you feel about some people having a preference for romantic partners that are still their GAAB (Gender Assigned At Birth)?
I can only hope that people will stop caring when we reach that point, but my feelings will be "oh well" exactly how they are now. It would suck that even at that point, being trans still has attatched struggles, but if that's how people feel, any attempt to forcibly change their mind would be ineffective and unethical
Why would it matter if that’s how they feel? Do you think anyone should have their intimate preferences influenced by the desires of others? Or should people be able to have their preferences without being shamed and/or judged?
That's what I mean by unethical. It's an unfortunate thing. Trans people shouldn't have to be affected by their gender assigned at birth, but people have preferences and have the right to have those preferences. There's not really a way to have things be fair to everyone, and people shouldn't be judged for having those preferences.
On a smaller scale, it would be like, one person really wants burgers for dinner, while the other really wants pizza. Neither of them is wrong, it would be great if they both wanted the same, but that's not how people work, and neither of them should have to compromise on what they want here. pizza and burgers are equally valid
That was a sh*t metaphor, as in the food example, there are several easy solutions that don't work in the actual case, but I did my best
Everyone has sexual preferences, like some people only find muscular people hot, some only find skinny people hot, some only find fat people hot and some only find CIS people hot. As long as it doesn't come from a place of hatred then live and let live. It'd be like forcing a gay man to date a CIS woman, in the way that it's just preference and orientation.
Is that why I keep seeing guys shuddering and convulsing on public transportation
No I just have a disorder lmao
Nah, that’s just the bugs in our skin
Friends! Never alone. What a beautiful existence.
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thats why they don't believe men are nature's perfection. they think women are nature's gift to their penises
Big fedora / "m'lady" energy.
Yes OP has
Nature’s perfection? Have you seen the human body
Mother nature was not cooking when making our spines
Ok but that last one is still creepy no matter what the context. “Nature’s perfection” is probably one of the creepiest ways to refer to any group of humans. Especially since humans are probably the least perfect out of all the animals lol
The line is kinda hard as fuck, but definitely creepy in an irl context.
How tho? We got top tier stamina and intelligence.
We're also guaranteed to get back problems at a certain age due to how our spines evolved to fit walking on 2 legs
Our eyes are shit, even when they work perfectly; compare to raptor or cephalopod eyes and we got screwed. Our hips and knees break down as we age because they're fighting gravity for years, kinda ruins that stamina thing eventually. Our teeth are ridiculously fragile and blunted compared to other teeth just in the ape family, let alone other animals that constantly grow new teeth and never suffer from decay. The same genes that give us larger brains than average are also why we can get brain cancer. Half of us have infection-prone mucus membranes right next to waste disposal, and the other half have urinary tracts running through a gland that will enlarge with age. Most mammals don't have a menstrual cycle, they have an estrous cycle where they reabsorb the blood instead of releasing it with painful cramping, so we got absolutely screwed there, too. Where a lot of animals are literally born developed enough walk, humans are born undercooked and absolutely helpless, and yet still nearly too big for our birth canals. I could go on. I know the species is doing fine, but that doesn't mean we're not extremely fragile and squishy in numerous ways.
Yes. Thank you for typing it out so I didn’t have to. This is exactly what I mean and I’m glad someone else knows
oh no, he’s hot
“Youre a homosexual man twisted by drugs” aren’t we all
when you compliment a trans man for having a male bone structure and also call him ‘bro’ 🥰
Diversity win the biggot give you gender euphoria
it will always be funny how these bigots are so clueless they circle around to being an ally
Don't mistake it for an original thought. It's taken from a copy pasta.
Damn these bots are getting bad tf
can wild shape change your sex?
Sounds like something straight outta Gemini Home Entertainment cos there's actually a creature called Nature's Mockery which is absolutely cool so I think they just made this guy look even cooler to me now
Man, these people suck. He looks gorgeous in that outfit.
That's Trans skater boyfiancé on Facebook !
Eddie is so hot holy shit
Pretty sure op is a bot too
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God damn… he’s so hot…
“Nature’s perfection.” Then why is the breathy hole next to the drinky/eatie hole?
Wait til you find out what's going on with the other side.
"you're a man with a mother" what does that mean
And they have the audacity to claim that we’re the confused ones 🫠
Im a trans femboy and anytime a transphobe gets confused like that it makes me so happy I'm just like yes thank you! I am a man ffs!
I was born intersex and am nonbinary but have to deal with conservatives yelling at me that I'm not a real man.
It's like "Yeah. I know. Thanks?".
But, if I wear feminine clothing I'm apparently a man and super masculine and their bro?
A crude mockery of natures perfection
Chill dude he is a man, not an eldritch horror born from the ambition to become a god
And even if he is, so what? Do we not have the right to be eldritch horrors with the ambition to become a god?
Holy shit this is goals.
So is it a boy or a girl i can’t even tell anymore
they’re so close. they’re like fumbling around the edges of an epiphany in the dark.
Ok, that's just showing off at that point my guy.
That one at the bottom is LGB accepting at the very least
Not really, it's implying gay men are crazy and more likely to become drug addicts , also playing on the homophobic and transphobic stereotype of equating trans women and gay men to be the same thing
Well they’re prettier then me (a cis women) so bless up sis! Stunning 🤩💋
I love Eddie!
When you go 360 degrees but end up in a different place.
I'd love to fuck bot
Repost, if im not mistaken..
He was never and never will be a woman!
i wanna be a drag king but I'm scared of binders
the diet gays are funny when they accidentally affirm your gender lol
What’s his @?
actual insanity those comments
This is genius tbh
What's his @?
Damn, he's hot.
He’s cute anyways so 🤷🏻♀️
not my proudest fap
be proud, it’s june
Honestly impressed that he managed to pull that off because when I first saw it I thought that was totally a drag queen but no that's a dude that's a drag King!!
Nope, still a queen. Drag kings are women performing as men.
Okay just a little confused Don't know the exact terminology when it comes to drag
No worries! I took it as you trying to be gender affirming tbh
Yeah that was my intention
It lifts my spirit to see horny bigots be confused.
Being pan/omni is pretty nice because you never need to draw hard lines about a person.
Would tho
Being trans really has nothing inherently to do with clothing, clothes can make a trans person feel better by allowing themselves to express their gender but at the end of the day it's just fabric covering your body.
A trans man would want to transition socially/medically because he feels more comfortable in male gender roles, and his brain is wired to feel better with male sexual characteristics such as a male hormone balance.
A man doing drag is also very different from a woman wearing women's clothing as drag is a performance art and usually drag queens don't dress like that during their day to day life, it's just a costume they put on for fun and entertainment.
Purple who are trans don't "become" their gender, they were always that gender. Even with genderfluid people they were always genderfluid. Totally seperate to that is the fact that some men just like dressing up like women because it's fun or feels nice to. There are plenty of cis men who like dressing up like women and they're not suddenly not men because of it, it is the same thing for trans men.
BuT We caN AlwAyS TeLL. 🙄