cait ASMR: my bad experience with the ''not-very-smart'' ASMRtist.

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About a year ago, I had a terrible experience with an ASMRtist I modded for, DM'd with (with her approaching me, I never go out DM'ing these content creators as I don't care for parasocial relationships) and who I made and did all kinds of stuff for. Her name is ''Cait ASMR'' and she's by far one of the worst people/content creators I've ever encountered online.

It's a long story, so I wrote a Google Doc about it where I go in detail and talk (and show with screenshots) about my experience with her. In the Doc, I talk about stuff like how, after around 8 months of supporting her, she pretty much kicked me out and ghosted me because I spoke up as a mod against people attacking one person in her Discord server, how she used her fans to attack others online who left ''weird comments," how a suicidal person got bullied by a admin/her irl friend in the server who has now vanished from the internet, and how the entire situation and her were just insanely toxic. Something you could never tell from her channel and is a story that should be out there and be told.

Check out the Google Doc here: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1J2N_WTV96bkvbSn1Mku6x1flca7xjABwn0LWpDLUdVM/edit?pli=1

UPDATE: After the publishing of this post and my Google Doc, Cait has now blocked me on Instagram. Again, not taking accountability or apologizing for her actions. I've tried to reach out to her in the past to resolve this like adults peacefully and not in public, and all my attempts have been ignored, so I now feel extra satisfied that I have shared this story for everyone to see. Whatever way she might present herself online, she is not a good person.

UPDATE 2: So i've just been infomed that Cait has made a statement on youtube and insta that she from now on won't be responding to people anymore out of fear of ''feeding into parasocial relationships''. Although a good choice, it's sad to see her still not holding any accountability for her actions or apologizing, but instead tries to paint her self as the victim in this situation to gain sympathy points from her fans. To me this could've all been resolved behind closed doors, sadly I wasn't given this opportunity, so I'm glad my post has made an impact and at least made her think about her actions.

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pepperoni__5

25d

Of course it was!! Who wants to explain a topic that is quite sure about it doens't need to over explain. Make it simple! I read all that u wrote before. U didn't have to repeat. Whoever reads all knows that u both guys are wrong, no matter how long ur answers be. Yep, she answered his dm, so what u think that made him feel? Wake up, dude... LMAO, that's exactly how cancel culture works. Don't play the dum dum card. Also, I don't care if u call me a boomer or whatever u want to call me. Just do it. Generation Z is fucked in the head. Oh, let's cancel this lady bc she didn't attend my expectations, and she likes dark humor and blah blah blah blah... Whatever, dude. I showed solid arguments, but u try to make like nothing bc u felt hurt and embarrassed. Stop with this cancel culture nonsense fr it just makes u look ridiculous. Oh, I go touch grass quite often! U, on the other hand, seriously need to go touch grass LMAO I seriously hope that u get better and more mature! Bc for as I've seen in ur counter comment/answer and profile... go touch grass dude fr

Mezzoforte48

25d

Of course it was!! Who wants to explain a topic that is quite sure about it doens't need to over explain. Make it simple!

All I'm saying is instead of going after how long our responses and comments are, actually address what we say. I'm willing to have respectful back-and-forths over the substance of what has been said, but not over hissy fits over the fact that you don't have the mental energy, the time, or whatever to read what we say and need a tl;dr to break it down for you. You not liking how long my and his comments are aren't our problems.

U didn't have to repeat. Whoever reads all knows that u both guys are wrong, no matter how long ur answers be.

Maybe if you demonstrated based on your words that you did read my previous reply, then I wouldn't have to repeat. Explain to me how he is wrong, if you weren't there when these incidents happened.

Yep, she answered his dm, so what u think that made him feel? Wake up, dude...

Yeah, I literally addressed this in my previous reply...

LMAO, that's exactly how cancel culture works. Don't play the dum dum card. Also, I don't care if u call me a boomer or whatever u want to call me. Just do it. Generation Z is fucked in the head.

If you think just saying negative things about a public figure you like is 'cancel culture' then that says more about you than anything else. And I'm glad to learn now that you think Gen Z is an insult because you think other generations are superior.

Oh, let's cancel this lady bc she didn't attend my expectations, and she likes dark humor and blah blah blah blah...

Dark humor? Wtf are you talking about?

Whatever, dude. I showed solid arguments, but u try to make like nothing bc u felt hurt and embarrassed.

All you've shown is that you either didn't read or misinterpreted what he and I have said. At the same time, throwing ad hominems at us, attacking our character and who we are, rather than what we've said. If you don't like what we have to say, then take it or leave it. Nobody's forcing you to believe him or stop supporting Cait.

Oh, I go touch grass quite often! U, on the other hand, seriously need to go touch grass LMAO I seriously hope that u get better and more mature! Bc for as I've seen in ur counter comment/answer and profile... go touch grass dude fr

How ironic of you to hope I get more mature when you make an emotionally ramble-y comment like this.

pepperoni__5

24d

LMAO so a comment with facts and logic was emotional to u?? Beyond going touch grass, go study interpretation and hermeneutics also. Honestly, there's no point to answer u more bc u think u and ur buddy are always right... u should think before typing but for what I've seen ur ego is to big to think more than ur point of view. Get better dude! Adios

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Mezzoforte48

24d

LMAO so a comment with facts and logic was emotional to u??

Anybody can believe that anything they say is factual or logical if they yell it enough times. You're just desperate to shut this person down for saying negative things about Cait that he witnessed and experienced when nobody is forcing you to believe him. Maybe take this passionate energy you have for defending Cait and use it on something more useful like, oh idk...touching grass??

Oh, and nice racism with the photo you shared. I definitely should take lessons on using facts and logic from somebody that uses racism to get their point across.