I’m 31 and he’s 32, I’ve known him since my junior year of high school. My best friend and my soul mate. He sort of asked as a joke initially but now we’re doing it for real. AMA.

Edit: Wow I didn’t realize this would get this much attention and there’s no way I can answer all your questions. I’ll just say firstly thank you all for the kind words and well wishes on the nuptials, and if the venue was a little bigger I would invite you all haha. A lot of you were curious about him and what he thinks and how he feels, he doesn’t do Reddit but he looked at most of my answers and pretty much agreed with everything I had to say. It’s okay if you don’t understand it doesn’t offend me or discourage me. I think everyone’s sole purpose in life and the true meaning of life is to be happy, whatever that looks like for you as long as you’re not interfering with anyone else’s experience. With that being said everyone… I am certainly happy and I suggest that if you aren’t you nee to figure out what you need to do to become that. I’m answering as many DM’s as I can but can’t get to all of your questions again!

Oh and I get it haha I’m not “straight” I want to apologize to everyone for maybe using a misleading term but that was genuinely how I viewed myself until I read a lot of your comments describing homoromanticism and adjacent concepts. So yeah sorry!