This is the vibe I’m getting from them, I never understood this. They talk about women in such a way that it’s obvious they have hatred or resentment for us at the same time still crave attention from us. Has anyone else noticed this?
Men don’t respect women but at the same time seem to crave our attention.
they just want a mom they can sleep with and spend their whole lives venting the anger they feel towards their real mother.
No wonder why I always felt like a babysitter to them. Overgrown children
Omg this is my ex husband.
Because most men don’t actually like women as people. They don’t view us as whole and separate human beings with all the same complexities, fears, hopes and dreams as men. Yet they need something from us and feel entitled to both our bodies and emotions. It creates a bitterness and resentment in them that is hard to overcome and dangerous (to us).
To them, we just exist for viewing pleasure, bangmaid purposes, or incubators so they can have the aesthetic of a bloodline.
So concise and so true
Honestly. If you compare the amount of members in Misogyny communities compared to Misandry, it’s drastic. Not to mention the blatant rape and child porn I see in male dominated communities.
Misandry doesn't exist in a Patriarchy. The slave can not oppress the master.
I think this one is pretty simple - they think they are and/or yearn to be as special as their moms once made them feel (or in some cases neglected to make them feel) when they were dependent children.
“Crave” isn’t the word I would use. “Entitled to” is the idea I get. Especially if you don’t provide it to them, they notice something’s missing. You aren’t conforming to societal expectations and it makes them very uncomfortable. Uncomfortable boys get scared which manifests in anger and lashing out. They are dangerous animals.
Toddler behavior entitlement is definitely the word!
“Noticed” it? We LIVE it.
Men have believed since the dawn of time that *they* are the center of the universe.
It’s not so much attention from women they crave, as much as attention in general. Attention must be paid!
Most men have MCE (main character energy) and they can’t handle a life without stardom.
And when the people around them constantly cater to their “potential” rather than their actual actions and behaviors this perpetuates the MCE bs.
they just want somebody to birth their “legacy” the moment they find out a woman is childfree by choice or just simply infertile and accepting it we’re worthless and without a purpose as a woman. 🙄
Honestly I think it’s about power. Attention from women provides them with status to other men, who they actually care about. They need to be able to show that they can get attractive women as proof of their manliness and social rank. They don’t want attention from ugly or overweight women as those reflect lower status on the men, ie “the best they can do.” Even if they are attracted to bigger women they don’t want their friends to know or see them with one (they’ll fuck a fat woman but won’t date her). They won’t be friends with ugly women they aren’t attracted to because it provides them with no status to other men and they see no value in friendship with a woman they aren’t trying to fuck. Getting an attractive woman shows that there is something special about them to other males, something that commands respect amongst them (heard from their own mouths: “women have more options so it matters more when she chooses me.”) Even stupid attention grabbing behavior like catcalling is to show power over the women to other men. Men see women as a tool they can use.
It’s because they hate themselves.
Define "male" please. You mean chromosome XY?
LMAO exactly!
I’d say it’s probably mostly due to them categorizing men and women in to more ridged groupings, than say more progressive gender understandings. So they will only show “respect” for women within a limited scope, and only for those that they determine fall within the boxes they have established in their own minds. This results in practice to create contradiction, which most would have assumed it would, obviously 🙄
Andrea Dworkin talked about this, and Jane Clare Jones. It’s because men can’t own their desires so they resent women for it.
They are masochists
They don’t like us but they do like how we make them feel